Ladies we picked the wrong species!
The female saddleback tamarin monkeys, of which two adult males are kept as a harem by one polyandrous female
The female Barbary macaque in estrus copulates with every male in her tribe and makes no effort to conceal each copulation from other males.
The male is a parasitic appendage fused to the female’s body in some deep sea fish
And a male is eaten immediately after copulation in some species of spiders and insects